I Am Woman, Hear Me Whine
2006-10-02 @ 8:39 p.m.

What effect do strong women have on younger/weaker woman? The author suggests it's either a love 'em or hate 'em effect. That is, the weaker woman learns from observing the stronger woman and becomes stronger. Or, conversely, the weaker woman resents the strength they see in others.

I have read both women for quite some time now. I do not think the writer was being arrogant. I think both Reanimations and Chickpea are strong women. Why do I say this? Namely because neither runs from their problems. Instead, they meet them head on. That takes strength. That takes courage. That's why they're two of my favorites.

I was taken by the post because I've always seen myself as weak. I would not make a good businesswoman because I would have trouble firing someone. I'd be too concerned about their feelings. I'd be too concerned about being thought of as a bitch. I'd be too concerned about what others thought.

Therein lies my problem and dare I say the problem for many women. Men have the luxury, moreso than women, of defining who they are. Men are most often defined by their profession: "He's a lawyer.... a doctor.... a police officer." This has it's own stresses, no doubt. Men are often categorized as being successful or unsuccessful based on income. Women are not yet judged by their income level.

I often feel defined by my relationship with other. How others see me. I'm someone's daughter, granddaughter, sister or girlfriend. I find myself taking on those roles as the need arises. The dutiful daughter, the caring granddaughter, the supportive sister, the boss's daughter....Girlfriend? That's another story all it's own. Be a lady at a party, a cook in the kitchen a slut in the bedroom. One day I got that all mixed-up and it took me days to find the spatula.

So, I think they're strong women, those two I mentioned. I often wonder if they have similar identity issues or are they just who they are, all of the time.

Here's to the strong girls! I love ya'!

Moving on. Sex.

Chris learned a new move or he's been holding out on me, the little devil.

I seem to be in a sexual routine with Chris. It's not bad, it's just always the same sequence. We kiss and touch, he fingers me, I go down on him, he sometimes goes down on me and then we have lift off.

The other night, Chris was laying down on the bed. I was on my knees, between his legs, giving him a blowjob. He pulled me off because he was going to cum. I sat back, still on my knees. Chris sat forward, got on his knees and faced me. He fingered me with one hand while grabbing me ass with the other hand. He then achieved a wonderful rhythm that ended up being sublime. It was terrific and different. I even sucked his finger afterward, which drives him crazy. I do crave variety in bed.

Guys, try that move. It will not disappoint her.